If we were to make everyone an admin and then baseline-screen (https://www.dreamwidth.org/support/faqbrowse?faqid=270) the comments of anyone who preferred that, all signed in members could read these, but no one else. The screened person could elect to unscreen any of their comments if they chose, but it'd have to be an active decision.
Compromise Formation
If we were to make everyone an admin and then baseline-screen (https://www.dreamwidth.org/support/faqbrowse?faqid=270) the comments of anyone who preferred that, all signed in members could read these, but no one else. The screened person could elect to unscreen any of their comments if they chose, but it'd have to be an active decision.
I *think* that would work?